Are you also stuck in the time rut where you are mourning a dead relationship? But is it right? Is it really worth your time? Read this post to find out…
My friend called me in a state of panic, late one night. Her relationship with her boyfriend was over. He had called it off suddenly.
They’d been together for 2 years and the fact that they might end up together had been on everyone’s mind. We all though they’d end up together. Obviously, he thought otherwise.
Everything went downhill from there.
She stopped working. She cried all day, all night long. She’d ignore most of our calls and messages and rarely stepped out. She slowly turned herself into a depressed recluse, right in front of my eyes.
I felt so helpless. I’d go see her whenever I could, with the food she liked or a bottle of wine. But she didn’t have much of an appetite and seemed skinnier each time I met her.
She gained composure, eventually.
Though she started socializing, she wouldn’t meet guys. I tried to set her up a few times, but as they say, it’s best to leave such stuff to destiny. And she wasn’t prepared for any kind of commitment anyway.
I tried to drill in her mind that the guy just wasn’t worth her time.
He hadn’t stopped once and looked back. No calls, no messages. Cold turkey, more like it.
Then how in the world did he deserve so much of her time? After months, why should she waste a single extra minute mourning his loss or pondering over what she did wrong?
I understand that she loved him. But loving yourself is important too.
But she never really got it and I finally let her be. What else was I supposed to do? Maybe you didn’t get the closure you deserved. Maybe you were betrayed. Maybe you fucked up. Whatever be the reason, it’ll be okay.
Find better ways to distract yourself. Reach out to those whose company and advice can help. Go out, meet people and find new things to do. There’s so much to explore. The world is open to you.
Channelize your pent up emotions to create something great. It’s never too late to start afresh.
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